“Committed” and
“Break up” are kind of becoming status symbols these days primarily because of
significant intervention and influence of western life style and social media. I mean to depict about profound notion of
today’s trend of ”Love”. People are so
much interested in responding others for these queries rather being interested
in the people on whom they have fortunately fallen in so called relationship. Almost
all the relationships are turning like recharge coupons with very limited
validity which has been a popular trend in the society. Funniest part of this crappy culture is that
those supposedly committed freaks are querying those single people about their
status and cracking poorest possible joke over them. I would like to deliver my
laughter for their prank with a managerial justification sticking to it.
I could recollect about
what one of my professors has said few months back when we headed to a business
school life that “Management” and “Business” are omnipresent entities which
could be imbibed in almost every possible thing in both personal and social life
apart from corporate. I was having a perplexed perception on his saying till
recent past, but these days I could able to relate everything happening in my
life with management sticking to it. This interpretation might be because of my
grooming in managerially matured state of mind. But, I do not completely agree with this fact
because I believe more in human perceptions rather on inhuman contemplations. But I do agree that in all prospects, we can
think from an angle of business or management. Alright, my recent application
of this interpretation is on human relationships.
Few days back, one
of my fellow friends asked me the same question. “Are you committed man?”. My response
was just a laughter to the query before answering it which made him to make a
wild guess that I am still single. He replied in marketing perspective, “If you
could not even able to sell yourself to someone, how could you be able to sell
other things and you could become at least a mediocre marketer in the offing?”.
He is someone who is quite frequent in changing his relationship status in
social media. I was cornered to reply him with the same marketing angle,
“Unless you focus the appropriate target audience with intense research, no
matter whatever you do to market your product. You will undoubtedly end up in a
break up before your breakeven. “. He tried debating but I never used to waste
my time in pointless debate which would end up almost in a zippo.
Although you do
not believe in both philosophy and science, the bare truth of life is that you
are down to earth to live independently. “Infatuation” and “Crush” are mere
words of fantasy and fun which are in fact depictions of emptied flavours of
life. They might seemingly make your
life funny but not comprised. So, solitude is something which travels with us
throughout our journey till the day of expiry. This lacuna could never be
replaced unless you find someone who could really stuff it with intensely true
love and care which is something harder to achieve in this mechanical world. Until
you find someone like them in your life, your relationship status makes no
sense to the outside world and in fact you are showcasing it to yourself with a
cracked mirror. Better stop wasting time in loving insane people and start kindling
yourself to love yourself first which would make more sense instead. If your
relationship is fading with time, why the hell you want to fall into it rather
you could jump out of it. For people especially like me who are extremely
choosy in admitting people in the radius of our world, how come it would be a
cake walk in focusing on our target market followed by better positioning? Using
strategies in a bountiful market is something equivalent in par with writing your
name on a shore where the waves are quite frequent. Try to figure out your
niche market segment before becoming an entrepreneur.
Until then, dare
to stay single rather depending on someone!
*This article is
strictly not intentional and not targeted towards anyone. And, purely fun intended
with fictitious characters in it.
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